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Child Abuse Prevention Policy


We know that you place trust in the Y to help your child develop and thrive - that is why our core values of caring, honesty, respect, and responsibility are part of everything that we do. We place great value on creating the most child-safe environment possible. We believe when you are well informed about safety protocols, it greatly assists our responsibility of remaining vigilant and aware of all individuals who potentially interact with children. You are strongly encouraged to immediately report any deviation from these procedures.



The Southington-Cheshire Community YMCAs have more than 700 staff and volunteers working with youth in the many programs that we offer. To keep children safe, we follow a comprehensive screening process for potential employees and volunteers that includes a detailed application and interview process, reference checks, criminal background checks, and training.



Our employees and volunteers complete an extensive child abuse prevention training program. Supervisors and managers complete additional training to further promote a child-safe environment. Additionally, all staff and volunteers are mandated to report any suspected child abuse.


Below you will find our zero tolerance YMCA procedures that are regularly communicated with parents.  You are strongly encourages to immediately report any deviation from these procedures

  • Children should not be contacted individually by a YMCA staff (i.e., no letters, email, telephone calls, texts, social media channels, visits, non-YMCA excursions, etc.), unless such communication includes the child’s parent.
  • A child should never be alone with a staff member, but may be separate, if in full view of others.
  • Children should never receive gifts of any kind from individual Y staff members.
  • Children should never be transported in a staff member’s personal vehicle, and never alone.
  • Y staff members should not babysit Y members or program participants. If the babysitting relationship pre-existed the Y relationship, the parents may request an exception from the Southington-Cheshire YMCAs to continue the babysitting relationship. If the exception is approved, a specific acknowledgment must be signed by the parents and the babysitting staff member and retained by the Y.
  • Children in child care, camp, amazing kids and babysitting must sign in and out of programs each day and will only be released to pre-authorized individuals.
  • Parents who become aware of hazing, bullying, or similar behavior should report the incident to the Y. Such behavior is often the precursor of peer-to-peer abuse and must be addressed.
  • Parents should be provided with the names of at least two separate Y individuals whom they may contact if they believe there is an issue of any kind that needs to be addressed.
  • Children should be encouraged to discuss their experiences with their parents and identify any behavior or activity that made them uncomfortable. Parents need to be aware that programs like gymnastics and aquatics require some physical contact between adult and child to provide the necessary instruction, coaching, and spotting. A single touch in a normally inappropriate place may not be an inappropriate touch if it occurred while trying to prevent an injury, etc.
  • Connecticut law requires adults involved in the care of children to report cases of suspected abuse to the authorities.



  • Talk to your child about his or her experiences in Y programs, school, sports, and other activities.
  • Drop in on your child’s programs.
  • Trust your instincts. Don’t wait to tell us if something seems “strange” Speak Up!
  • Every once in a while, ask your child these questions:
    • Is anyone scaring or threatening you?
    • Is anyone asking you to keep secrets?
    • Has anyone said anything to you that made you feel bad?
    • Is anyone touching you in a way that you don’t like?
  • Encourage your child to tell you or another trusted adult if anything happens to him or her.
  • Watch for warning signs of abuse:
    • Unexplainable bruising or other physical markings
    • Disturbed sleeping or eating patterns
    • Abrupt changes in behavior-anxiety, clinging, aggressiveness, withdrawal, depression
    • Fear of a certain person or place
    • Discomfort with physical contact
    • A child who abuses other children
  • Listen and watch for signs of your child receiving special attention that other children or teens are not receiving, including favors, treats, gifts, rides, increasing affection or time alone, particularly outside the activities of school, child care, or other activities


If you have any questions or concerns regarding a YMCA staff person or program please contact us.
Chrissy Cassesse, Cheshire Branch Executive Director,, (203) 272-3150
Jay Jaronko, Southington Branch Executive Director,, 860-426-9530

If you suspect abuse please contact us immediately by calling (860) 426-9508 or by submitting the Anonymous Comment Form.

If you are not comfortable sharing this information directly with us, please make a report to the CT DCF Careline, 1-800-842-2288. If you feel your child is in immediate danger or has been physically injured please contact local law enforcement and seek medical attention.

You can also make a confidential report using the attached form mailed to

Attn. Mark Pooler, CEO

29 High Street

Southington, CT 06489